All kids have authority issues.
As parents we have all been there. We tell our children not to do something, and when we turn our backs they decide to do it anyway. Obviously, the root of the problem is their own selfishness. They want to do what they want to do, and not do what you want them to do. But, they are also experiencing a problem with authority, a problem that if you don’t deal with now, will come back to hurt them and haunt them for the rest of their life.
All of us are subject to authority. Whether it be our boss at work, the police and firemen who protect our streets and homes, or the governmental authorities that we vote into position. Most importantly however, is that fact that we are all subject to God’s authority, and by disobeying the authority that He places over us, we are ultimately disobeying Him. That is why it’s important for your child to understand that you, as their parents, are in authority over them, and that that authority has been given to you by God. When they obey you, they are obeying God. When they disobey you, they are disobeying God. If we want our children to live a successful life, they have to learn to obey authority. When they do they will be able to grow up to be the leaders that God designed them to be. Have your child watch the video below about the life of Samuel and how he, by obeying Eli and by obeying God, became one of the greatest prophets in the Bible.
When the video is complete, talk to your child about authority. Use an umbrella as an example. An umbrella is designed to protect us, but the umbrella only works when we stay underneath it. If it’s raining outside and we stay under the umbrella, we won’t get wet. But if we leave the umbrella, we are sure to get soaked to the bone. Authority is like an umbrella. When we stay under those who are in authority over us by doing what they ask us to do, we will be protected from the harmful things in life. If we step out from under the umbrella of authority that protection is no longer over us and we will suffer the negative consequences. Make sure your child knows that God has great plans for them, but those plans will only come about if they live a life of obedience.
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